Being single is amazing. Well, at least it is for me right now.
Sometimes we just don't have the time to worry about whether your opposite likes you, or really cares. I'm so sick of giving the extra effort, and getting none in return.
I mean, if I'm gonna be happier this way, then why not? It's better to know that you have those people who will always care about you and be there.
I've recently been helping a friend with a boy problem, and I gave her the advice of 'letting things falling into place.' If you rush into something, then things will definitely not turn out the way you'll want them to. Don't try to control your own life, it's too hard to handle. If you just let things happen on their own, and follow them as you go, life will be so much easier.
I didn't realize it until a few days ago, that I needed to take my own advice. The right person will come to me. I might have already met them, or I might meet them way later on in life, but it'll happen.
So, while we're waiting, why not enjoy life? Roll with the punches, and take an opportunity when you see one.
But if you're gonna make a commitment to someone, keep it. Don't make someone be your rebound from your previous relationship, and then let them down as soon as you get over them. Don't make them think that you like them one night, and the next not even care. Follow up on your actions.
In conclusion, just live. Take a step back, and live. Things will happen for you, that's one promise I can make.
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